You are going to feel angry, you are going to feel depressed, and you are going to feel frustrated, but at the end of it all, you are going to have to deal with it.  The solution to dealing with a job loss is to not panic and begin aggressively and methodically searching. Running away and hiding is not going to solve anything.

Accept Reality - One of the first things you have to do when you are without a job is that you are going to have to accept the harsh reality that you have no job, you have no income, and you have to start looking for a job all over again. Anger, frustration, shock and acceptance are the emotions you are going to have to go through.

These will then have to be taken over by a plan of action. What are you going to do to get through this situation? This is the first question you should ask yourself.

Understand Your Financial Position - Most people have a false sense of security where their finances are concerned. They think that they have enough money to live on for the next year or the next few months and that this will give them sufficient time to deal with getting another job. This is not the case. Meet with your accountant and find out the true condition of your finances.

You may not have enough money to support yourself for the next three months, let alone one year. The position of your finances will help you understand and evaluate what needs to be done next. Do you need to take up a temporary job to support yourself or your family while you work at getting the ideal job? Do you need to take a loan? These questions, once answered, will help you chalk out a plan.

While understanding your finances, you also need to assess your cash flow, your debts, your savings, and your assets.

Formulate a Plan - This is the most important step in dealing with your job loss. Formulating a plan gives you a systematic and step-by-step guide on what to do and when.

The first step is to get your immediate family involved. This means informing your spouse, parents and maybe even in-laws that you are now without a job. This will help them be more supportive towards you and may also allow them to help you save money by cutting down on expenses.

Always prioritize your debts. Knowing which bills are of utmost importance and which need to be paid first is necessary to avoid any financial problems right from the start.

Expenses and income needs to be proportioned. This helps you to know about your spending power. Avoid using your credit card as much as possible.

Inform your creditors of your situation as this will help them be more understanding towards you.

If need be, get a credit counselor to handle your finances and to help you with your credit and creditors.

Get the Right Perspective - You have lost your job and are unemployed. It is a bad thing, but you need not look at it that way. Looking at it with a positive attitude helps and gives you the right perspective to deal with the situation. To have the right perspective, you need to accept that bad things happen, that this is a temporary phase and will pass, and that the important thing is to focus on the things you have and not what you are missing.

Dealing with a job loss is not easy; it happens to most and to the best. The key to recovering is recovering with grace and dignity.